Yeah, he touches my little brother.
Molested by brother
All this is why I want to talk with a "brother". No good parent should, but sometimes parents are haunted by their own demons and don't know how to handle a monster like this for their child, so they hide their heads in the sand and hope it will go away. Meaning, when my parents were turned away. Sick fuck. Was my mom going to stay with him.? My sister swears to it to this day. That's all you can do. None of my siblings will have anything to do with this brother after all the crap he has done. I've suffered enough. When I was 13 my mother had a friend of hers baby sit me when I was sick.
Awareness can be so healing. I think your daughter will be okay, and that your actions may have prevented her a lifetime of suffering. To me, there is nothing he can say or do to take it away, so for me, it won't give me peace. I remember the first time it ever happen, I came back from my aunt's 21st birthday party. Abuse comes in many shapes and sizes and order of severity, when you are faced with incestual abuse, you are made to suffer in the same way as a political prisoner or a citizen of a corrupt regime: you live in constant fear and self doubt. Tell them that you are worried about your little sister. Poking around. I doubted his clever odd lies, so I said '"wheres the blue one? I only talk and engage in conversations with others when I am drunk.
When you have cancer, you go to a doctor to fix you up, you do not stay at home wailing about how unfair life is. Log in Register. If you really do care like you say, then a life time of redemption shouldn't be to hard. I never got mad at him it just made me sad I oftten times tried hummor to defuse It which worked some when the temple thing asked me he beged me not to tell dad because he would kick the shit out of him. To Evi, You're I know him and his friend would do this stuff with one another, and he told me they consensually explored with one another. But I cant. You should tell your mum. I do admire people who have the courage and bravery to speak up. Again, not because I felt guilty about it, but because I felt sorry for his spouse and children and I had developed other friendships and relationships.
Feeling alone and different leads to isolating behavior. I can only say that divulging my "secret" at the age of 25 was not really a choice. It helps so much. The answer kept me awake all night. He fingers him. Intelligent, gentle, caring nurse. I told them that he's been touching me, and feeling me. He than started touching me in places I never been touched I started crying and screaming he held me down hard And said shut up he put his man inside me and I just was so ashamed he push deeper and deeper in me till I throw-up.
I love him dearly and he loves me and we still talk openly about our spouses. I was a rather horny kid, and while what happened freaked me out, I found out that sexual experimentation was going down among my friends in a very similar fashion. My parents are long gone but they certainly witnessed the confusing behaviors I now recognize were the product of early trauma. It was also a very convenient way to let off my steam of anger and hurt. My mother and I happened to be watching a movie about this cituation and I ended up spilling everything to her. It is a "good Christian thing" for her, I think. I went through many years of very reckless sexual behavior, as well as drinking and drug abuse, trying to escape who it is that I am. I feel it makes sense to take the list from the top, what do you say? She had made a comment about the absuse to myself while we were having ice cream, I was in shock!!! And I'm not planning to.
I was just trying to give some perspective by showing my experiences. It's good that you can speak of it in an anonymous board, but if you don't want this to poison your life, you should reach for psychological help. I was a rather horny kid, and while what happened freaked me out, I found out that sexual experimentation was going down among my friends in a very similar fashion. If you can find a person like that, they will be able to listen to you better then your parents. The beautiful thing about life is that the world keeps turning, the clock keeps ticking and life goes on. All you're going to do is hurt someone, someone who has issues controlling themselves. Tell them that if she starts acting the same way as you did when you were a child than they probably know why. That was the end of that game.
My bro accepted full responsibility and very sincerely apologized. I've been wanting to kill myself for quite some time. She has never confronted or talked to me about any of it. Yeah, he touches my little brother. My niece and nephews hate me thinking that I and the 2 girls made it all up, and even my younger brother and his wife think I am lying. Awareness can be so healing. Well when I was 11, my older brother, 15 held me down and penetrated me, then proceeded to release as in urinate himself inside of me! I was lucky, I had a friend I could trust, i told her first. He needs help, but I haven't been able to tell my parents.
I was still at school when this happened and afterwards a social worker the nosy useless parkers came to my school called me out in the middle of a a lesson and started questioning me about my family life, asking about my Dad. Except after I sucked him, he gave me a lecture about how he would not reciprocate because it was homosexual. Because human know about norms, they know about what is right to do and what is not right to do. Guess who my mom said is going to walk me down the aisle whether I like it or not? My own brother. You are the dirtiest dirt that we human need to get rid of. I cant stop crying reeding this post. Set yourself free already and tell your family. I feel for all those people who have suffered or are still suffering at the hands of the lies abusers use to manipulate. Once he was naked and I ran away and he chased me into my parent's room.
Related Categories. I was unaware of what was happening with me, but I felt very disgusted. And now have fear of men. Learn to love and trust yourself again. My friends , and family, those that I have a healthy relationship, are what matters. I'm a christian.. Should I continue to suffer in silence. I am a gay man, and I'm sure that this has nothing to do with my brother. Now I placed him behind bars..
Any feedback will be greatly appreciated. Because no matter what we do it will always be nagging on us. Listen I was recently sexually molested by my brother i am now in counseling for bout 3 weeks now and have forgiven my brother maybe you should try to do the same. I was walking home and I had taken a shortcut through the baseball field. I ended up getting pregnant at age 16 from my step brother and had to lie about it to everybody. Stop posting that "I molested my cousin and she seems to like it blah blah blah" cause know what? My brother sexually abused me when I was about 8 years old and he was 6 years older. Gotta put them down. Just be the bigger man and forgive him. Was I going to cry over him, slamming my ragged body around.
If no one believes that college stuff, then there is no way I'll ever talk about the sexual abuse during my childhood. You only have one life to live to be happy that's why you need to do it. It disgusts me. I literally had to fight for myself everyday of my life even after I had the baby.. I was lucky, I had a friend I could trust, i told her first. Those pathways determine what gives you sexual pleasure from that moment on. Related Categories. Someone who has NOT experienced this, will never know. You molested her when she dont even know what molest is? Users browsing this forum: Google [Bot] and 10 guests.
When I wass 12 my older brother encouraged me to suck his dick, and then he would suck mine. They wont change unless they put an absurd amount of effort into not acting like that. I would like to die but dont have the courage. He told me that in order to get into their guys club I had to let one of them touch his penis to my vagina. His ass should be locked up. I never tried to give her pleasure, to kiss, or to lick, never touched her clit, and I never jerked off or even played with my penis or touched her with it. You both need professional help. But acknowledging the pain you carry is important. What must we let go?
My mom also went through the same situations and she's in therapy for it right now. I know this must have taken A LOT of courage to do and I'm glad to hear he accepted what he did an apologized. She said then you are O K. I don't know if he remembers what happened, but I forgive him for it. If you could take a moment to have a look it would be greatly appreciated. I wish I had a good suggestion or advice for forgiving your brother. It hurts. My husband was with me so I had major support. And I was terrified people would find out what a "horrible" person I was.
Yes, and when children sexually harm other children it is often for very different reasons than adults. I immediately got him a therapist and he stated weekly sessions. Be brave okay. Hi my name is Felicia. It didn't stop until I was thirteen and he moved out. My brother is a monster and my parents want me to forgive him. One of my best friends was molested by her cousin at a young age, also, and while nothing much happened, she was still changed drastically by it. Be brave, you will be amazed at what you are capable of. Show him that it's wrong and case closed?
Liked this? He was drunk at the time and if my mom hadn't pulled up, he wouldve penetrated me. And he still had the cheek to pretend like nothing happen. I want to understand and be understood. This cousin married and fathered 7 children, and still on every occasion when he and I would meet at family gatherings and such, he would, without variation, make an excuse to somehow be alone with me for sex. He often has temper tantrums and the only one who can really calm him down is my Dad, usually through a shouting much. Twice I felt my younger by 2 years sister's vagina in her sleep. I know I need to forgive him at some point in my life.
You both need professional help. Common Mistakes: the word "i" should be capitalized, "u" is not a word, and "im" is spelled "I'm" or "I am". Use both where young and people do stupid things when they are young, When young animals are born brother or sisters they will try the same Is this fair? If you parent loves you, they will fight for you. I have told no one and I never will because It's gross and no one will believe me or they will blame me for it. They will deny it. To this day it haunts me- it kills my smile when he comes around-BUT I had to forgive him- he took from me that was not for his taking-for years I was scared and felt like it was my fault- IT is NOT- Counseling helps-but you need to sit down with your brother and have some kind of peace about it. But for 13 years we had a really good relationship.
So he hits me because I'm his bitch and he's my pimp. Idk if theres a place she could go to get rehab for doing things like that, or a therapist or something but my mom is of no help and I need something to be done. There is hope for you to be the person you deserve to be, but holding it in will not let you do that. He told me that in order to get into their guys club I had to let one of them touch his penis to my vagina. Listen I was recently sexually molested by my brother i am now in counseling for bout 3 weeks now and have forgiven my brother maybe you should try to do the same. Please, ask God for help, pray and He will help you. When I was young my brother molested me for 4 years. I am not a victim of sexual child abuse, nor am I close to one. The problems I had had in my life, can not even nearly be blamed on him. I am only responding to your post to let you know you can put this behind you, live a productive life, and above all, be happy without guilt.
I remember the first time it ever happen, I came back from my aunt's 21st birthday party. This poem talks about the pain I felt. If it wasn't for society you wouldn't even be emotionally "damaged" by the so called "sexual abuse" that took place in the past. He's a molester. The guy dragged me to the woods and raped me. When I wass 12 my older brother encouraged me to suck his dick, and then he would suck mine. My brother would do anything for me and my children whom I have had from a previous relationship. I can live with that - what I couldn't live with is if I had done nothing knowing that I was abused, learning that he went on to abuse 2 other children and some harm had come to his own children. He took everything I had from me..
I know how you feel and scared you would be since you were and are so young. So, although my experiences were not as severe as yours. Please, ask God for help, pray and He will help you. About a year ago, halfway through my GCSE year 11 the police suddenly came to my house and took my Dad away. What can I do? He is. What made it worse was that both times were when we were sharing a bed on vacation. When I opened my eyes it was him.. You have so much power at this moment,and not for bad but good.
Just the same, knowing that I can still hurt my brother is somewhat a comfort to me, because he is still hurting me, I guess. It's better if you learn to live with it and try to make another friend who has had the same thing happen. I hate him for assaulting me and then acting cute and innocent. Knowing what he does everyday When I was 5 my brother made me sit on his lap and I thought everything was okay, but then he raped me. I don't even want to know the reason he lies My brother sexually abused me when I was about 8 years old and he was 6 years older. I was so full of hate!
I would suggest to you not to tell your family, and if necessary, just avoid your brother. The reason I said think is it's a big deal and I've always worried if I just came out with it I don't want to ruin his life just because I had a vivid dream and began to think it was real. You only have one life to live to be happy that's why you need to do it. I don't bring up the incest subject, I just apologized that I've been so hateful, and asked a favor of them - I needed cosigner in renting a room for my family. Hopefully your parents will realize he brought this on himself. I kept to myself.. Leave my fiance who I told what I did. I'm sorry for all the pain they cause because it is so wrong for anyone to do that, have to go through that pain and experience what he did to you. I hope that's enough to give some perspective. I had an older brother that passed away when I teenager.
Six months later after my mother first had him care for me, my mother explained to me her friend was a latent homosexual. I love my Dad. I pleaded for you to stop, but you still wouldn't get off. My brother told me this 'penis' was from this store similar to spencers, and it was an austin powers brand. You seem to be in a good place with your brother and I do envy that in a way but I do think his seemingly genuine apology and generous disposition as a human being, makes it easier for you. It was never your fault,reclaim what's yours the innocence in all this. I was angry, I had a right to my anger, and I let it show. I have been wanting to talk to a "sister" to try and understand how she may have felt. I wish I could have told them Welcome to MS and I hope you can find the support I have found on my journey toward healing.
I don't even want to know the reason he lies There are NO extra points in life for being a martyr. Never let anyone abuse anyone and just get away with it! With so many of us in the same boat, there's no need for any of us to row alone. Poking around. It makes even intelligent, rational people do things they wouldn't otherwise. And gradually down the line these 20 years, I developed a very quick, automatic, powerful converter inside me. I want so much a close and companionable family. They may not fully understand, but The first molestation I remember happened when I was 11, my brother
There wasn't really anything sexual tho. I am now 15 and hating myself because he blames me. Hi, I am 18 years old I told myself "I'm sorry" I got up and looked in the shattered mirror with my blood shot eyes, not recognizing myself through the blood and bruises. I don't know if you should tell your family It stopped - I got over it and could have lived with it in silence for the rest of my days. There is hope. I actually hate my brother and will eventually confront him whenever the opportunity arises as we both live in different countries but I don't want to plant that seed in your head as you have a different type of relationship. I don't bring up the incest subject, I just apologized that I've been so hateful, and asked a favor of them - I needed cosigner in renting a room for my family.
That's a long list. My Mom asked me if he was touching me. And what a fantastic healing feeling, that comes to Never let anyone abuse anyone and just get away with it! I know what you are going through also. I felt better that my mom knew about it. Thanks for posting your opinion. I accepted the fact that I was gay. Eventually, my mom broke up with him.
This will be a long journey for you and he both, but having the support of one another will be immensely helpful. How difficult. So I started to think I could have got it there. This poem talks about the pain I felt. Maybe he thought you where a girl? I feigned starting awake from her response and asked what woke her, to which she just went right back to sleep. You are not to blame. Social services were happy that my older brother's children were safe with him and no action was taken there, even though my neice had already moved out to live with one of my sisters. But I was young.
That's not right man! I did notice that she shied away from it first. The only difference is I am 44 years old, and I have managed to find a way to move on with my life. He also told me that I had to be angry with my abuser to move forward in my healing process. So quick, automatic, and powerful, I hardly noticed I was hurt at all. Acting out your discomfort with what happened is not a solution to anything. After some very disappointing exchanges, my Dad consented. Keep me logged in. I don't know if it happened the first time or not but eventually he touched us and had us touch him.
I'm scared to lose him because he means the world to me and would even go to the extent of not taking any cognisance if his wife had to say anything against me. Even though this has happened to you, you deserve to be happy and fulfill your dreams. I would not hope for forgiveness, but only an understanding that, curious teenage boy i may have been, I know what I did was wrong and am truly from the depths of my soul sorry for what I've done and how it might have affected her; that I've been truly sorry from the moment it happened; that, despite our strained childhood, i always wanted deep down for her to be my best friend; that I have always worried for her and loved her. My own brother. Sexual pleasure burns "pleasure" pathways despite the fact that it was forced, no matter the age when one feels aroused. There wasn't really anything sexual tho. Don't go away. What happened to you was tragic. Everyone pretty much just sat in the dark in a closet for 5 minutes, no one even attempted to touch me any of the times. Someone who has NOT experienced this, will never know.
We used to laugh about it when i was in my teens. Hi MangoTango97, I doen't participate much on this forum due to my low level of English but your post speaks to me. However, I think it is necessary to get away from him. I think you should let your family know. My parents are dead so I never had the opportunity or inkling to tell them about the abuse and I never told the rest of the family although I alluded to it during the fall-out. And I will have to live with this for the rest of my life. You have it bottled up inside of you and you don't know it but it is eating at you everyday. I also want to talk with a mother and father where their son has molested their daughter.
To all those abusers and abusive posters, fuck you and die, make some space for nicer people on or little planet. This will be a long journey for you and he both, but having the support of one another will be immensely helpful. I was pretending to sleep hoping he will go away but he wouldnt so i told him to go, i begged him to go, i cant stop cring now as it happened about 20 minutes ago, what do i do? He violently thrusts the flacid object through his mouth and into the ass of None of them can even reply to a simple "Do you remember? Also, there is the facts. Too young to fully understand what I did. He started beating me brutally.. I didn't tell my mother until 5 or 6 years after it happened but that was because I had to I was going into a mental institution at the time for a suicide attempt and it was one of the issues brought up.
And what a fantastic healing feeling, that comes to Menu Search Login Loving. I'm still struggling with the emotional toll it has taken on me. Hey MangoTango97, Thank you for sharing your story. Six months later after my mother first had him care for me, my mother explained to me her friend was a latent homosexual. I can't seem to decide if I want to tell my mom and ruin his life. They can't say you didn't warn them. I didn't tell my mother until 5 or 6 years after it happened but that was because I had to I was going into a mental institution at the time for a suicide attempt and it was one of the issues brought up. I'm scared to tell because he's crazy for a 14 year old. I don't know that hating him helps you in a meaningful way.
But I hope you can find the words and the chance to get a bit of hope. Dealing with it is so hard, but it will pay off in the end, I promise. I'm hoping it doesn't matter much to you. He put his mouth on me, He stank of beer. He thinks I'm a Slut. I choose not to have kids even though I know I would never let them be harmed I'm extremely emotional. It's time to move on, forget your past and start a new life. But for 13 years we had a really good relationship.
You also may decide to seek counseling for yourself; please browse our treatment resources above if you do. I am devastated, my heart is broken for my little girl. Sexuality is learned behavior. Please send me a link or email me at bkarageorge96 yahoo. Acting out your discomfort with what happened is not a solution to anything. I am now 17 and you need to tell your parents. I have an older brother he is 24 he is my half brother I let it go. The scars that you fucktards left.
I was 11 when this started happening, and my brother is two years old me. Tell them that you are worried about your little sister. Search forums. I literally had to fight for myself everyday of my life even after I had the baby.. I finally told my mom and it was a good thing because it turns out he was bribing my younger sister as well. But you do need to find someone, a friend is best, to talk to about it. Her brother was charged with sexual abuse on a minor and was taken from our home and placed in foster care. That's not right man! It helps so much. Whom will you become?
I refuse to let what he did to me, ruin me. My sister swears to it to this day. Glad I don't sound curt to you. Yes, to some degree. But it has proved helpful. I am still only a teen and I can definitely relate to what your going through. I promise. My brother sexually abused me when I was 12 years old.